Life Manual

Life is better handled, prepared.


Choose decisively

Factors determining A CHOICE:
– Upbringing Environment
– Factors in play in a situation
Factors in play limit the choice a person has
The Environment in which you are brought up develops
thinking and the ability to assess a situation.

Who is the judge?

Now, who sets the standards for a choice to differ
between good and bad?

We are making the choices depending upon the above
said factors, should I say we were brought up to think
in such a way?
Do we blame ourselves for the choices we make?

I think the biggest question is whether I can be a
(Hehehehe , didn’t see that coming , did you?)

Next Dingle Days strip will be out soon, as I feel
much better after watching some TV and reading fellow
bloggers posts as they less focus on what happened, the heap of the earthquake is settling and things are going back to normal.

My Flickr account exists, so what? Not enough photos, is the problem. I will be reviving my camera, take 3 or 4 new photos transfer them to my Flickr account and
will officially be launching it before Ramadan end.


Lesson 1: Indecency

Bollywood says “bare and dare” is just a temporary thing but whom are they fooling? Due to Bollywood having reached international markets they have to
appeal to the taste of the international viewers andthey have to fall upon the standards of the movies made in the international markets.
Why am I ranting about international markets, internationalmarkets? Forget it.
Hollywood is an open house full of vulgarity. There is so much immorality in the life of celebrities in Hollywood that we can’t expect them to make movies
that are clean and moral. Their lifestyle is corrupted due to to being perverted.With movie titles andplots like that of Unfaithful etc,do they teach us a lesson or two in morality?
Hollywood expertise of camera angles and editing are so good that indeed the shots turn out tempting. I didn’t think properly and didn’t see the sense when
people used to say that the violence and other things in the movies corrupt the minds of the kids. But lately, I’ve been thinking more on the levels of a
third person, a person who is not in the situation and who thinks of it in an unbiased manner. They make new movies and introduce new concepts in
immorality; bollywood actresses now shifting to
Hollywood would one day be doing all that the Hollywood actresses are doing now. Bare it all. Hence we will see bollywood movies replicating
Hollywood movies (which they already do) and the actresses’ shedding clothes in both the Woods. Storytelling in Hollywood has an anomaly in the form of
lovemaking scenes, mirroring a westerners’ view of the songs in South East Asian movies (useless).
How are we going to be affected? By Lollywood actresses moving to Bollywood, get the full Bermuda triangle?
Mass kharab hona of minds is inevitable.

This brings me to another topic that is of the “joke” that marriages among Hollywood celebrities are, when you are engaged in fornication why are you getting married? That is not to say that marriage is just”copulation”. But that’s what seems to be happening in the life of the STARS. Istima’al karo aur phaink maro.
Use and throw. Tired of your partner? Nothing new inthe relationship? The answer is simple, kick the old one and get a new one. We see history, couples you
thought that would never split, DEMI-BRUCE,TOM-NICOLE, going down the drains. When the relationships on Hollywood don’t work and it is proven too, then
why marry?
How many times has the same actor fallen for each co-star while shooting for different movies? Well if you wouldn’t have body/lips sharing scenes in the
movies, the actors won’t grow fond of the others features and according to them fall in “love”. These are the very people who splatter mud on the divinity
of LOVE and reduce it to mere lovemaking, forcing the watchers to think on the same lines.

Before I stop for today, I would like to say one morething, which is that I am using a lot of “that is not to say” and I am not feeling good about it.


Verification for Nothing

Dingle Days isn’t a daily or weekly thing. It occurs randomly when the idea comes alive. Saying that, the Dingle Days post was due, but since the earthquake happened I don’t feel it justified to be posting it, justified to the earthquake sufferers. So no more Dingle Days until I am satisfied on the earthquake front.

There are some questions like general statements which I would like to ask. Some serious and the others, non-serious. They will be in place under the heading,” Why”?

Ramadan is almost half over and it was hardly noticeable for us enjoying creature comforts. Yet we are the people who complain about the striving but this Ramadan we’ll all be quiet and we know why.


Britain’s richest man Lakshmi Mittal has announced that he will rebuild an entire area affected by Hurricane Katrina. A good deed but the worlds biggest economy doesn’t need such philanthropic contributions when there is a developing country requiring the same.


Miscellaneous News: Saudi Arabia has okay-ed a Cinema. Although it will just show cartoons and will be open for children and women only. Does this mean Progress?



We are loved.

Pakistan is such a lovely country that a human feeling called love amasses in Nature in tons unquantifiable, which, it showers on us. I refer here to the “aftershocks” which are still prevalent within the country. All parts of the country being affected still. Nature is not able to prevent itself.

Other side of the Coin:

This love is one-sided though.The people being affected are not in love with it.There are people who cannot go to sleep because of this love, there is a limit to almost everything, when this limit is crossed,”the benefits” get a beating from the adverse effects.

3rd side of the coin:

Malthus, an economist, realted the natural disasters such as earthquakes,famines. Malthus said,that when population is more than the resources,Nature punishes.This sounds possible at one end and at the other end sounds like the absurd-est thing to hear.

but from this I would like to say that over-population is not a joke and not to be lightly taken.

Ending Message: May Allah spare all of us from such unexpected love-showering.


Any one listening?

Before I continue today, I would like to mention that when I made my previous post I didn’t know that countries other than Pakistan were affected, I would like to extend my wishes of well-being to them as well.

Zalzala aaya , logon nay aik duusary ki madad bhi kee aur kar rahey hain.Bari achi baat hai.

Laikin yeh ehsaas baaqi dinon kahan hota hai,mein yeh manta hoon keh hum sab mein pyaar toh bara hai, laikin jalan bhi bohot hai. Mera eshara uss taraf hai keh jab hum aik doosaray ko daikhain,toh uper say neechay aur phir neechay say uper kai dafa’a daikhtey hain, keh yeh koun hai aur yeh kahan say aaya? Mein doosri qoumon ko aur doosrey mulk kay logon ko daikhta hun to hairat hotee hai un ka ittefaq daikh kar,hum kiyon nahin aisey ho saktay, hum aik doosrey ko kiyon chubhtey hain? Aik doosrey kee taraqqi say kiyon jaltey hain?

Hum kab sudhrain gain? Jab poori tarha barbaad ho jaein gay?Jab bohot dair ho jaye gee?

There is hope…if we help each other in need,if there is an underlying feeling of love, why not bring it out for everyday living?